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Thread ID: 138575 2014-12-18 06:46:00 Anyone had a colonostomy? Greg (193) PC World Chat
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1390545 2015-02-11 19:52:00 [QUOTE=pctek;1216260
This is because when it gets to this point, it goes real fast. Not too bad one minute, pretty **** the next.
So it's all over.[/QUOTE]Sounds pretty grim :(
Greg (193)
1390546 2015-02-11 20:00:00 Alas you are not alone, chap next door just had bladder out and now awaits biopsy report.

We only have one innings, lets hope we make the best of it.
Cicero (40)
1390547 2015-02-11 20:18:00 Sheesh, never an easy post to make, or to reply to.

Condolences to the both of you.

At least it's left you with time to plan things ahead of time.

Regards,

Paul
Paul.Cov (425)
1390548 2015-02-11 23:26:00 Keep talking to us. You need a supportive place to do this - and we are those things in this forum.

I have been those places you at, and the support from this group was amazing.
R.M. (561)
1390549 2015-02-12 00:57:00 Thanks.
Hmmm...it's already disintegrating...relatives.......we are supposed to be running around doing this and that.
He's never liked that, never wanted to discuss never mind meltdowns.
He has no interest in pointless treatments...but apparently I'm a ***** cause I'm not making him and saying things and whatever.

But I know that will just stress him more, best to shut up and just carry on.
Amazing how some people stop thinking about the sick one...
pctek (84)
1390550 2015-02-12 04:52:00 I am very sorry to hear this news. It is something no one wants to hear.


Amazing how some people stop thinking about the sick one...In this situation, many people say and do things to make themselves feel better. It is understandable, and knowing that will help you deal with it better. You need to do what your husband and yourself wants.

Take care.
Jen (38)
1390551 2015-02-12 07:15:00 Damn. Sad to hear that Pctek, a decent gentle man. Please give him my best wishes. Winston001 (3612)
1390552 2015-02-12 09:02:00 Not sure how this thread changed, but really sad to hear that pcteck, im sure a lot of readers are thinking and saying the same things in their heads........... never sure what to say, some things are left unsaid yes, those who say and use useless empty words................ but we are here for you - especially the Auckland peeps being closer? if you need us.........someone is always online on here..................

we await news i guess............ hugs from me, take care of yourself.
beetle (243)
1390553 2015-02-12 09:43:00 So sorry to hear. It's tough on you both. Often the partner or closest relative will bear the brunt of someone feeling so unwell and a host of other things.
If anyone offers help, take it with both hands.
Wishing you both all the best.
Marnie (4574)
1390554 2015-02-12 21:22:00 I am very sorry to hear this news. It is something no one wants to hear.

In this situation, many people say and do things to make themselves feel better. It is understandable, and knowing that will help you deal with it better. You need to do what your husband and yourself wants.

Take care.

Excellent advice from Jen. All the best to you PCtek.
CliveM (6007)
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