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Thread ID: 150473 2022-02-12 19:54:00 Not swearing when you are swearing Roscoe (6288) PC World Chat
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1484298 2022-02-13 06:58:00 I have a theory that a lot of people when they swear, have no idea of the actual meaning of the words they are using. My very prim and proper and religious Mum frequently used the word 'bu**er,' believing it to be a meaningless word or perhaps related to the dairy spread. One day on a road trip I was sufficiently exasperated, I told her the real meaning of the word. She was horrified and didn't utter another word all the way home. Probably spent the next week praying for forgiveness.

Perhaps if they realised what they were actually saying, people might find the use of bad language a lot less appealing.
Blue Druid (4480)
1484299 2022-02-13 09:00:00 Or when it goes from 25C on Friday to 6C today and flooding on your property. Mid Feb and we have the fire alight for the second weekend in a row yet the week between was 25C Bliidy annoying

That would do it for me to.
prefect (6291)
1484300 2022-02-13 19:52:00 Swearing is a universal human behaviour... and I believe a good way to vent frustration, anger etc, which is likely healthier than trying to suppress one's emotions.

The problem comes when swearing is used in general conversation, because then you just look like an idiot.

I think most people are intelligent enough to tell the difference and use swearing when appropriate.
Agent_24 (57)
1484301 2022-02-13 22:10:00 To me it's not always what you say, it's how you say it, and the intent behind it. Yeah, very hard to interpret correctly over text, but for example seeing as it's valentines day, I recall one a few years back with "of course I f***ing love you, you stupid idiot"
That could have been taken a few ways, but to me, as you slowly build up a relationship with someone (counting friendship as a relationship) you start to use expletives as a way of expressing your point, which you generally wouldn't do with a stranger, or someone you know is uncomfortable with those words.
the_bogan (9949)
1484302 2022-02-13 22:48:00 What do you think? Is substituting a swear word for another word still swearing. I think so.

Yes.
My dad, after he got infected with religion, used to say Heck because saying hell was bad apparently. Obviously didn't know where it derived from. And his other ones, similar origins...

**** that.
piroska (17583)
1484303 2022-02-13 22:49:00 To me it's not always what you say, it's how you say it, and the intent behind it. Yeah, very hard to interpret correctly over text, but for example seeing as it's valentines day, I recall one a few years back with "of course I f***ing love you, you stupid idiot"
That could have been taken a few ways, but to me, as you slowly build up a relationship with someone (counting friendship as a relationship) you start to use expletives as a way of expressing your point, which you generally wouldn't do with a stranger, or someone you know is uncomfortable with those words.

I most definitely would not get away with f**k with SWMBO. A sh*t (or bum!) here or there would not worry her too much but that naughty "four letter word" is only - and rarely - referred to in it that manner.

Our nephew, who visits us now and then, is great at swearing but at least he does not swear in front of Aunty.

But, yes, I agree with you, Bogan - it is how you say it and the intent. Although I am not certain that I would speak to SWMBO that way. I'd get a clip around the ear and she would most probably stop talking to me.:horrified
Roscoe (6288)
1484304 2022-02-14 00:18:00 and she would most probably stop talking to me

Roscoe, I think you've stumbled upon the secret to many married peoples dreams
the_bogan (9949)
1484305 2022-02-14 00:59:00 Roscoe, I think you've stumbled upon the secret to many married peoples dreams

The secret to married life for a bloke are the two words...... "Yes Dear"

Ken:banana:banana
kenj (9738)
1484306 2022-02-14 01:23:00 The secret to married life for a bloke are the two words...... "Yes Dear"

Ken:banana:banana

Unfortunately, the younger generation have cottoned onto that, and whenever I say that, it is interpreted as I'm not listening, and just mocking you, dear
the_bogan (9949)
1484307 2022-02-14 04:02:00 Worked for me for 54 years :) :) kenj (9738)
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