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| Thread ID: 97059 | 2009-02-03 02:42:00 | Section 3/11 - Youth law | ZapperBoy10647 (11988) | PC World Chat |
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| 744426 | 2009-02-03 10:43:00 | ...Give someone freedom and they'll most likely respect it. Give someone strict rules and chances are they'll try to abuse them and rebel against them. I'm not saying there should be no rules, but I think if (in this case) the unlce lightened up a little on the rules then everyone would be happy. Don't give them anything to rebel against and they won't rebel at all.Don't give them anything to rebel against and they will feel lost and have no idea where the appropriate boundaries are. If you don't give your kids the structure they need, you're one hell of a bad parent. I'm not saying be overly restrictive or anything, but it's a well known fact of teen psychology that this is the age where you spend a lot of effort (often without being aware that this is what is happening) probing the world around you and finding out what is acceptable and what isn't, what bites back, how to take care of yourself etc. Throw someone into that mess without any form of support and you might as well leave them to drown. |
Erayd (23) | ||
| 744427 | 2009-02-03 10:53:00 | My ex girlfriend had parents like your uncle. They hardly ever let her out of the house and when they did they would always be keeping track of who she is with/when/doing what. Made her rebel. Give someone freedom and they'll most likely respect it. Give someone strict rules and chances are they'll try to abuse them and rebel against them. I'm not saying there should be no rules, but I think if (in this case) the unlce lightened up a little on the rules then everyone would be happy. Don't give them anything to rebel against and they won't rebel at all. Just my 2c At what age did your ex girlfriend rebel? Why is she an Ex? Did you find someone new? Bear in mind I am not here to tell you what to do. |
Sweep (90) | ||
| 744428 | 2009-02-03 11:49:00 | At what age did your ex girlfriend rebel? Why is she an Ex? Did you find someone new?. Jesus. Mind your own business. |
qazwsxokmijn (102) | ||
| 744429 | 2009-02-03 12:07:00 | At what age did your ex girlfriend rebel? Why is she an Ex? Did you find someone new? That's just creepy Sweep. |
beeswax34 (63) | ||
| 744430 | 2009-02-03 12:23:00 | Jesus. Mind your own business. I do mind my own business but for the sake of debate I ask questions of others. The first word you said could be considered blasphemy depending on the context. But there again I have to accept your point of view as you know everything and of course you know your rights. |
Sweep (90) | ||
| 744431 | 2009-02-03 12:43:00 | That's just creepy Sweep. May I ask why my post was creepy? I have to ask questions otherwise how do I learn? Back to square one. Want to debate the issue? Parenting means you look after the child or children you and your partner have responsibilty for. But you may not know this yet. |
Sweep (90) | ||
| 744432 | 2009-02-03 22:26:00 | At what age did your ex girlfriend rebel? Why is she an Ex? Did you find someone new? Ummmm, yea no. I think that's irrelevant. |
--Wolf-- (128) | ||
| 744433 | 2009-02-03 22:52:00 | Hello im currently under section 3/11 of the youth law meaning that im under supervision for six months . im having problems with my placement(my uncle) . the problem is that he's trying to be a control freak Excellent . That would be why you are with him and not someone else . You think thats bad, carry on how you were - you'll find jail less fun . |
pctek (84) | ||
| 744434 | 2009-02-03 23:04:00 | Ummmm, yea no. I think that's irrelevant. So what is it? Yes or No? If I pushed the boundaries too far I was set straight by my Father. When I was 16 my Father asked me to pull my trousers down as he was going to give me a hiding for a broken window. It was in fact my Brother who broke the window but I was not going to tell. I did not get the hiding as I said to Dad, "You take them off." He did not and that was the last of it. I guess what is relevant depends on your point of view and once again is only an opinion. |
Sweep (90) | ||
| 744435 | 2009-02-03 23:23:00 | I might add that caregivers do not always give the care needed. home.nzcity.co.nz I guess she is only a litle bit pregnant maybe. But the taxpayers are paying as usual. This sort of thing is why I would like to know where my offspring are and I feel like I would check in the event I had any misgivings. I make no apology for that. |
Sweep (90) | ||
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