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| Thread ID: 97963 | 2009-03-05 15:03:00 | Me and my ex - final closure | Greg (193) | PC World Chat |
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| 753829 | 2009-03-09 04:32:00 | These are the things I have observed with mates of mine and their mates. Not saying it applies to other people like you so dont get your knickers in a twist. I am in a circle of hard working, hard drinking friends. Not the sort of people you would take home to meet your parents 1. Dont worry about how females cope they seem to cope very well when they split. Exes of mates of mine seem to shack up again with indecent haste. 2. Almost routine the males start drinking after separation and something snaps in their heads and they go do something stupid. 3. The court mostly lets the female have the kids and the male gets lumbered with child support even though the ex has shacked up with someone else. 4. 50 50 split of matrimonal property is ga ga land |
prefect (6291) | ||
| 753830 | 2009-03-09 04:56:00 | Sol... you've always had your head in the clouds, but your comments here show that you've brought it down and got it wedged in your rear end. "new found wealth"?? I hardly call 50k "wealth" you poor bugger! :lol: Well, you must think it wealth if you can blow it on a car!....If I was living with my folks at your age, the last thing I would be doing is buying a car and a Jag at that. Great come back regarding my rear end though, real mature answer for some serious questions. |
SolMiester (139) | ||
| 753831 | 2009-03-09 05:08:00 | I wonder if Jags these days use Lucas auto electrics (as loved by R2x1) | prefect (6291) | ||
| 753832 | 2009-03-09 05:38:00 | What did you do Greg? Write a diary so that you could list everything you did during the relationship? A marriage is a commitment as is a civil union today. Do you have a friend or mate then dump them because he or she happens to say or do something you disagree with? Then again some people get into church and promise to be together until "death us do part". Maybe marriage vows are not worth the paper they are printed on. We should maybe say something like we will stay together until the other person becomes intolerable or I have found another or why have you got this dog when you should know I only like cats. A man and his wife should be friends and a partnership. My Wife left me but we are still friends to this day. She has no other guys and I have no other girls. I was offered and accepted lunch today while setting up a new LCD TV for her. Damn. Forgot to leave an invoice. |
Sweep (90) | ||
| 753833 | 2009-03-09 06:26:00 | Agree with prefect, most often the aggrieved male left behind on a side road whilst the female is off with some new character in a few days parading down the centre of the promenade hand in hand with a big smile on her face. | zqwerty (97) | ||
| 753834 | 2009-03-09 07:51:00 | There are just as many stories of bad husbands as there are of bad wives. The thing that is skewed towards women is custody of children - it is almost always awarded to the wife. | Greven (91) | ||
| 753835 | 2009-03-09 10:05:00 | There are just as many stories of bad husbands as there are of bad wives. The thing that is skewed towards women is custody of children - it is almost always awarded to the wife. This is the hugest battle for men. The woman could be the most evil peice of sh** to ever grace the earth, the guy could be the mosty awesome father of all time, but the woman will get rites to the kid by default. It is not case by case, it is a 'general' term when it comes to child support which is the most f***** thing I have ever experienced. I hate how men are treated in these circumstances and plan to do something about it. Im not fighting to be pro male etc, but Im fighting as a dad to be a dad which to me is a fight i shouldnt have to fight. |
rob_on_guitar (4196) | ||
| 753836 | 2009-03-09 10:20:00 | Does it have anything to do with the fact the mother actually had the kid in her for 9 months and physically gave birth to him/her? Not taking either side on this, simply just asking if that's one of the reasons? |
--Wolf-- (128) | ||
| 753837 | 2009-03-09 10:31:00 | Does it have anything to do with the fact the mother actually had the kid in her for 9 months and physically gave birth to him/her? Not taking either side on this, simply just asking if that's one of the reasons? No - there is just a commonly held feeling that there is a trend in the Family Court to favour the female party to any custody proceedings. I'm not sure whether it is supported by any research, though. Through my life experiences however, I have seen it is the trend that men leave their families when things get intolerable in the relationship - and then fight for custody - rather than it being the woman who leaves the family and then fights for custody. The Family Court will only ever order a change in custody when there is a compelling reason. They don't just do it because one party asks for it to change. Therefore, whoever has custody at the time of the separation tends to keep it. |
Deane F (8204) | ||
| 753838 | 2009-03-30 08:48:00 | I know someone who broked up, he's an Aussie, was stalked, then booked the next flight outta NZ :thumbs: Came to work and gave an instant resignation. |
Nomad (952) | ||
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