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Thread ID: 97963 2009-03-05 15:03:00 Me and my ex - final closure Greg (193) PC World Chat
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753789 2009-03-06 09:58:00 Lighten up guys, don't be so paranoid. What sort of relationship are you ever going to have if you constantly worry about money? And who's going to look after you in your old age?

If you are really worried and on a second marriage, you can both enter into a relationship property agreement recording each of you keep your own. Cost you $1200, cheap if it all goes pear-shaped.

And set up a Trust as well.
Winston001 (3612)
753790 2009-03-06 10:06:00 But what's the point of marriage if you don't share everything?

I love the idea of marriage,I would like to be married and have some kids and a white picket fence but in reality it's not a safe thing for a man to do now is it.:D

What's the divorce rate 2 out of 3 or something get divorced and then get taken to the cleaners and have no home,no car,nothing!!!:eek:

Why get married for that to happen it's just not worth the risk!!!

I have to have a plan for the future and be able to look after the people I love and that includes myself as well of course!!!And that would all be screwed if I had nothing of course would'nt it!!!

I have been giving $100.00 every pay day for 5 years now to my old's to help them out as they are retired and my mum confided in me and told me it helps them out alot,it means they can get a taxi,go to a resturant,go to the movies and then get a taxi home.Or pay for unexpected things that crop up now and then.They look forward to my pay day as that is when they can go out together again like they did when they were younger!!!:D

I may not be financially able to do that for my old's if I was paying for a divorce settlement so it affects others apart from myself as well.
memphis (2869)
753791 2009-03-06 10:08:00 You give your parents pocket money? Dont let my parents see this thread....lol hueybot3000 (3646)
753792 2009-03-06 10:17:00 53k. what did u do to earn that? - not dissing just askin

marriages suck unless theres a pre-nup the chick will ***** because she cant f*** you over. but if she means it it wont be a big obstacle and you can sleep easy even when things turn dirty

BTW: ROFL @ huey
ZapperBoy10647 (11988)
753793 2009-03-06 10:31:00 You give your parents pocket money? Dont let my parents see this thread....lol

HaHa,Yeah I am paying them back for the money they spent on raising me and looking after me etc. and I want to help them out now that they are retired as well and because I love them of course!!!:D:thumbs:;):blush:
memphis (2869)
753794 2009-03-06 10:41:00 I love the idea of marriage,I would like to be married and have some kids and a white picket fence but in reality it's not a safe thing for a man to do now is it.:DDont worry, I after reading your posts I think you have no chance. Rob99 (151)
753795 2009-03-06 11:08:00 You just have to accept that you never can truly know someone, No matter how much you may love them, what goes on in their head is only known to them.

So you work hard, stake your place in the world and enjoy the life you build.It could all turn to **** tomorrow, that's no reason for not enjoying the journey.

If my wife left me she could have all the crap, and half the money from selling the house, What I considered as important would already be ruined.

Though I of course wouldn't want that to happen, and have no idea how I would handle it emotionally as I'm quite attached to her.


As long as she kept her hands off my bike and the contents of my home theatre:D.
Metla (12)
753796 2009-03-06 11:37:00 I would want the bike. home theatre. AND THE HOUSE. if i could get it i will. im not a unfaithful guy so why should i have to give it to a cheating b*tch ZapperBoy10647 (11988)
753797 2009-03-06 11:59:00 I would want the bike. home theatre. AND THE HOUSE. if i could get it i will. im not a unfaithful guy so why should i have to give it to a cheating b*tch

hmmm...deep seated issues?

Your a bit young to be bitter aren't you? That crap will ruin any relationship you may ever have before it even gets started.

When I'm old and I look back on the things in my life that meant something to me, I doubt it will be the house itself.....
Metla (12)
753798 2009-03-06 12:23:00 When I'm old and I look back on the things in my life that meant something to me, I doubt it will be the house itself.....

And it sure as hell won't be money.
Metla (12)
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