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Thread ID: 115305 2011-01-12 04:24:00 Do You Have A Partner? Roscoe (6288) PC World Chat
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1169216 2011-01-12 09:35:00 A wife is a wife, girl friend is a girl friend.

There is a difference between girl friend and girlfriend ;)
pcuser42 (130)
1169217 2011-01-12 10:07:00 Partner. We aren't married - we are in a long term relationship which makes us defacto relationship. I find missus a somewhat demeaning term. She agrees with SWMBO tho lol

Since we in defacto relationship, maybe I should refer to her as defactor?
Myth (110)
1169218 2011-01-12 10:15:00 Girlfriend. Been going out a month on Friday. xyz823 (13649)
1169219 2011-01-12 10:19:00 Girlfriend. Been going out a month on Friday.

You poor, poor man. :(

I feel sorry for you :(
goodiesguy (15316)
1169220 2011-01-12 10:25:00 Almost always refer to her as "Wife", sometimes "Wifey" when I'm feeling too young to be married, occasionally "SWMBO", but never "partner". Chilling_Silence (9)
1169221 2011-01-12 10:26:00 You poor, poor man. :(

I feel sorry for you :(

I feel sorry for you! :D
xyz823 (13649)
1169222 2011-01-12 10:27:00 Better half!! I am j/k, I can go with either term, but I do prefer that my name be used.

I can understand why such a place as a doctor's office has chosen to be on neutral ground when the preferred title isn't clear. But what's wrong with asking what title a person prefers?

It's a similar thing to using the term Ms when one is not sure if it should be Mrs or Miss. I don't like it, but it's become so widespread.
Marnie (4574)
1169223 2011-01-12 10:28:00 IMO the term 'partner' fills a bit of a gap, it seems a little awkward to introduce someone as 'this is my long-term xfriend, <name>' - 'this is my partner, <name>' sounds a bit better. My father uses it all the time - he and her have been together about five years now, long past xfriend status, not married though.

I suppose that it is PC to an extent, but I don't mind it a bit. Ye gads, whats happening to me?!


I'm single - for now

I'm not single, I'm riding solo.
ubergeek85 (131)
1169224 2011-01-12 10:29:00 I have a wife and four partners.

The partners are co-directors of a company I own jointly with them.

Like Chill, I never refer to SWMBO as 'partner' - because although she is a partner, 'wife' denotes so much more.... Married since December 1986.
johcar (6283)
1169225 2011-01-12 10:30:00 I agree with most of the posts here.
I hate PC crap but de facto or fiance etc etc is a pain in the ass.
DeSade (984)
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