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Thread ID: 148273 2019-10-09 01:39:00 Legal Matter - Relationship Property What is it? Digby (677) PC World Chat
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1464428 2019-10-11 22:26:00 Just in case anyone is thinking that I'm not romantic here's one of my favourite songs and also a tribute to Ric Ocasek who died last month:

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zqwerty (97)
1464429 2019-10-12 01:38:00 Rule 1
If it has a vagina you will never win against it.
prefect (6291)
1464430 2019-10-12 19:32:00 Especially if you treat women like a battle. piroska (17583)
1464431 2019-10-12 19:42:00 Why? Given the forwardness and probable inappropriateness of your question her reply seems thoroughly reasonable.

Shame she lost her job.

It was the shock of her amswer that bothered me. She could hav just soid "NO". The implication to me was that if a will was in her favour she would marry me. Why? No Love in sight. I cannot imagne marrying some lady without love for each other being the prime motive.
Incidentally Iaskd the caregiver ofice if I could change my caregiver because I was getting strong felings towards her. Apparemntly not unusuaal with onely old men. She was very sorry to hear my problem & I got someone else. She did NOT lose a job,but moved on to another needy customer. PJ
Poppa John (284)
1464432 2019-10-12 20:02:00 You did the right thing PJ. I would have done the same.

Ken
kenj (9738)
1464433 2019-10-12 23:45:00 In Auckland. I had a Filipina caregiver cleaner. Very attractive always woked hard & always did a little more than a European. Age, Late 30s. Me mid 60s. Had her own house from her dead husband & two young daughters.
I asked here one day, "What would you say if I asked you to marry me?' Reply.. " I want to see your Will first". I changed caregivers.
If you want a young "Partner" The adverts on the computer give you plenty of choice.Russia, Ukraine,Anywhere in general Asia. Lets face it, those girls are not marrying for love, only for a better life. I dont blame them. Not easy to fit into a Kiwi lifestyle no way of knowing how you will be treated. PJ

Yes, I'am also amazed at your courting techniques.
I'ts a wonder she did not slap you.
I would asked her to dinner, or asked if she liked movies, or asked what she did in her spare time.
Digby (677)
1464434 2019-10-13 03:25:00 She did NOT lose a job,but moved on to another needy customer. PJ

Sorry, had to read that twice for a minute I thought it said another seedy customer.
Not to be rude, but remember they are there doing a job. They have to, and should be, nice. Doesn't mean they are all in love with their clients.
piroska (17583)
1464435 2019-10-13 05:43:00 Mum's carer in the old peoples' home was of Asian extraction, probably Filipino, she was uppity, often ignored Mum's button pushes, performed tasks begrudgingly and in the end we think she took some money out of a drawer.

Mum was a difficult person to deal with especially as she aged and was having T.I.A's but still surely that's what the job is about dealing with cantankerous older people.

Actually I wasn't impressed by any part of the home Mum was in, both the facilities and things like the air conditioning were deficient as well as the service in general, I wouldn't advise anyone to go into a home based on my experience with Mum and the new modern home she went into.

Leave going into one as long as possible and stay in your own place for as long as you can.
zqwerty (97)
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