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Thread ID: 117331	2011-04-13 08:28:00	How do you stop a stalker?	Ninjabear (2948)	PC World Chat

Post ID	Timestamp	Content	User
1194221	2011-04-14 03:49:00	So how would you stop a female stalker :p Be terrible in bed?	Cato (6936)
1194222	2011-04-14 04:08:00	Seriously guys recommending violence and threats is how this stuff ends up in the papers, I wouldn't consider it sensible at all and only something to be used as a last resort. First make it clear again that she want's nothing further to do with him and that if he continues you will be forced to go to the authorities. If that doesn't work start looking into official channels, a restraining order or a "friendly" visit from the police could work wonders. If not at least you tried doing it the right way before going down other paths. Also changing phone numbers and ignoring him as much as possible might work.	dugimodo (138)
1194223	2011-04-14 04:11:00	Contact police, see about getting a restraining order. There is nothing worse than knowing every move you make is being watched. The perpetrator is the person who needs help to stop his behaviour and not the person being watched. Ideally police intervention would be best. Taking the law into your own hands is not the best way to go. It is very easy to overreact and find yourself in trouble with the law.	Bobh (5192)
1194224	2011-04-14 04:12:00	Seriously guys recommending violence and threats is how this stuff ends up in the papers, I wouldn't consider it sensible at all and only something to be used as a last resort . First make it clear again that she want's nothing further to do with him and that if he continues you will be forced to go to the authorities . If that doesn't work start looking into official channels, a restraining order or a "friendly" visit from the police could work wonders . If not at least you tried doing it the right way before going down other paths . Also changing phone numbers and ignoring him as much as possible might work . Trouble is waiting for this is also how it ends up in the papers . I wasnt condoning violence, only the threat	Gobe1 (6290)
1194225	2011-04-14 04:14:00	Also changing phone numbers and ignoring him as much as possible might work. Yes, live in fear change your number. If that doesn't work maybe move houses? NO. You don't live in fear of some asswipes terrorizing you. You go to the police, and put in a complaint and if possible restraining order. If that does not work and he enters your property, then violence would be most appropriate.	Cato (6936)
1194226	2011-04-14 04:15:00	I guess a complaint will help if it goes beyond stalking..... EDIT: at least that way they will have a first suspect	Gobe1 (6290)
1194227	2011-04-14 04:16:00	Seriously guys recommending violence and threats is how this stuff ends up in the papers, I wouldn't consider it sensible at all and only something to be used as a last resort. First make it clear again that she want's nothing further to do with him and that if he continues you will be forced to go to the authorities. If that doesn't work start looking into official channels, a restraining order or a "friendly" visit from the police could work wonders. If not at least you tried doing it the right way before going down other paths. Also changing phone numbers and ignoring him as much as possible might work. The way my friend and I did it had no violence at all, nor threats. It did help however that this friend of mine is actually a 90kg weightlifter. We just told him his uninvited advances are making her uncomfortable, and that we'd appreciate him to stop making any further contacts with her.	qazwsxokmijn (102)
1194228	2011-04-14 04:29:00	Im not her new boyfriend lol so yea. I've passed the message on to her sister I guess we will see what will happen later in the week. My friend doesn't have much faith with the police tbh. He's large and fat lol so yea hard to inflict pain on someone who's that size.	Ninjabear (2948)
1194229	2011-04-14 05:04:00	Im not her new boyfriend lol so yea. I've passed the message on to her sister I guess we will see what will happen later in the week. My friend doesn't have much faith with the police tbh. He's large and fat lol so yea hard to inflict pain on someone who's that size. Make him run, thats always good punishment for a large fat man	plod (107)
1194230	2011-04-14 05:08:00	There were some people suggesting getting physical, even if they weren't entirely serious . And I am not suggesting living in fear, simply that if he doesn't have the phone number he can't text her . It may help get the message across . But mostly if either her or a friend can't convince him to back off (without getting physical) then it's time to talk to the police, even if they can't help they should be able to tell you what you can do about it . If she is feeling afraid or threatened and not simply annoyed then she shouldn't wait but do something now .	dugimodo (138)
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