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Thread ID: 117331 2011-04-13 08:28:00 How do you stop a stalker? Ninjabear (2948) PC World Chat
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1194201 2011-04-13 08:28:00 My friend's ex has seperated with her boyfriend about a year now but he still knows what she does, who shes meeting, what she does during the day etc.It's becoming a nuisance texting her etc and when she ignores the text messages he goes over to check up on her etc.

He's like stalking her.

He's a international student too and he's been failing uni for the last 6 years?

So.. is going to police the right way to go?
Ninjabear (2948)
1194202 2011-04-13 08:33:00 Call immigration, have him deported. Much cleaner than the cops who won't do ****. DeSade (984)
1194203 2011-04-13 08:43:00 new number for her phone? move house?

so he's got too much money and time to spend bothering her? if you know this info about him, then he is easily finding info about her . . . .

have you thought of contacting uni? if he is failing . . . . . . . . . he shouldnt be there . . . let alone there that long . . .

do you know how he is getting this info?
oh and write down times, dates, etc, document it where you can and contact police for help .

:confused:
beetle
beetle (243)
1194204 2011-04-13 08:55:00 My friend's ex has seperated with her boyfriend about a year now but he still knows what she does, who shes meeting, what she does during the day etc.It's becoming a nuisance texting her etc and when she ignores the text messages he goes over to check up on her etc.

He's like stalking her.

He's a international student too and he's been failing uni for the last 6 years?

So.. is going to police the right way to go?


Tell her to get off facebook & bebo. Go see the cops. Get a restraining order.
Get his ass deported.

Edit: Also where's that little creep from?
Cato (6936)
1194205 2011-04-13 09:01:00 Restraining order. Punch to the face. Either or. inphinity (7274)
1194206 2011-04-13 09:57:00 What a creep. Is she making it clear to him that it's over?

Had one of these creeps do this to a friend of mine recently. She made it clear that they weren't together anymore, but he kept insisting on just being right down stalker-ish. So another friend and I confronted him next time he showed up uninvited. He hasn't bothered her since.
qazwsxokmijn (102)
1194207 2011-04-13 10:14:00 Hes from Singapore apparently.

She has made it clear long ago but he keeps coming back to her. Creepy,
Ninjabear (2948)
1194208 2011-04-13 10:15:00 new number for her phone? move house?

so he's got too much money and time to spend bothering her? if you know this info about him, then he is easily finding info about her . . . .

have you thought of contacting uni? if he is failing . . . . . . . . . he shouldnt be there . . . let alone there that long . . .

do you know how he is getting this info?
oh and write down times, dates, etc, document it where you can and contact police for help .

:confused:
beetle

I thought as long as uni receives money they don't kick you out of uni?
Ninjabear (2948)
1194209 2011-04-13 10:22:00 I thought as long as uni receives money they don't kick you out of uni?

This applies to them not for us. Most universities/tertiary providers will be rid of us if we fail more than 50% of papers in a given year.

Internationals bring in a lot of money (25k vs 4k for us), I know a guy who also failed 5 years now still in his "second year" at Uni cause he brings in foreign cash.
Cato (6936)
1194210 2011-04-13 10:32:00 Seriously, if you aren't too big of a guy, get a gym-going big guy and confront him. That will send him the message. qazwsxokmijn (102)
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