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Thread ID: 119769 2011-08-09 01:11:00 An Open Letter To Jen: SurferJoe46 (51) PC World Chat
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1221921 2011-08-09 03:39:00 This can't end yet, I've still got 3/4 of my popcorn left!!!! Turn your web cam off Chill (www.zgeek.com) :lol: wainuitech (129)
1221922 2011-08-09 03:42:00 Is this an old problem?

[QUOTE=Zara Baxter}I hope some of you get the chance to meet me at some stage .

Not on my visitation activities list for the moment .




No comment other than you can sure stir things when you ARE here!

[QUOTE=Zara Baxter}My position is, and always has been, that negative stereotypes about any minority group are unwelcome here, where our policy is to be excellent to each other . I believe, as I said in the initial thread, that you were skirting what was acceptable . I didn't delete your thread, I just gave a mild pointer .

I do not perceive this as your full apology .




No? Over-reacting is YOUR bailiwick, not mine . I'm the injured party here and don't forget it . You called me a racist and I resent that with all the force mustered in my being . For that, and your cavalier attitude now, I cannot foresee forgiving you when no hand of recompense is out from you .

[QUOTE=Zara Baxter}I'm sure Jen can speak for herself, but she has my full support in her unpaid role . Your dismissing her volunteer effort seems to me incredibly rude .

Rude is again, yours . Admit that you were wrong and maybe there's room for a dialog here . You cannot switch this to an outcall about Jen - you are the troublemaker here, so get that straight .

Until you recognize the scope and insensitivity of the words you posted in an international forum, I still smart and although I won't cry about it, the world is watching your politicizing this event to sweep it under the floor with a shoulder chuck and a kiss off . So it will not be .

I refuse to roll over with what I consider your feeble political hack attempt and co-dalliance with Jen with your commiserations, besmirching her and her work here and attempts to diffuse a situation in which you are totally culpable and the scoundrel .

I demand a full and total apology in the most forthright manner .

Tell the truth here - who told you to try this old bait-n-switch on me?

We have politicians here who would call you a piker and just laugh at your attempt to diffuse this problem with smoke screens and will-o-wisp rhetoric .
SurferJoe46 (51)
1221923 2011-08-09 03:49:00 I do not perceive this as your full apology .


That's because I'm not apologising for telling you you were close to the line .



No? Over-reacting is YOUR bailiwick, not mine . I'm the injured party here and don't forget it . You called me a racist and I resent that with all the force mustered in my being . For that, and your cavalier attitude now, I cannot foresee forgiving you when no hand of recompense is out from you .


Please provide evidence that I ever called you a racist, or retract immediately .



I refuse to roll over with what I consider your feeble political hack attempt and co-dalliance with Jen with your commiserations, besmirching her and her work here and attempts to diffuse a situation in which you are totally culpable and the scoundrel .


Are you serious? I give you a mild "hey, just be careful there" and I'm a culpable scoundrel . Hyperbole much?
Zara Baxter (16260)
1221924 2011-08-09 03:53:00 My position is, and always has been, that negative stereotypes about any minority group are unwelcome here, where our policy is to be excellent to each other.

:confused: Well how should I go about pointing out that the Rioters and Looters in London and surrounds are predominately one colour? (Without offending anyone.) :confused:
B.M. (505)
1221925 2011-08-09 03:53:00 Your sig tells all:


I remain unsubjugated, untamed, unbridled, uncontained, free, unconstrained, unfettered, uncontrolled, wild, untameable ... and in possession of a thesaurus.
What an attitude!
SurferJoe46 (51)
1221926 2011-08-09 03:57:00 ...glad I kept my popcorn! :D Chilling_Silence (9)
1221927 2011-08-09 03:58:00 Save me a beer, will ya Chill? SurferJoe46 (51)
1221928 2011-08-09 04:00:00 :confused: Well how should I go about pointing out that the Rioters and Looters in London and surrounds are predominately one colour? (Without offending anyone.) :confused:

You know what they all are? They're all looters. That's the common bit. Some might even consider it the most salient point. Crazy talk.
Zara Baxter (16260)
1221929 2011-08-09 04:05:00 Zara, as someone who has thus far been totally uninvolved in the situation, I'd like to step in here and just say a few brief words.

I fully agree that insulting and abusive comments should not be tolerated on a public forum. That said, I do believe the action (specifically, comments made) here was not based on what was written but based on an abstract interpretation of part of a post taken out of context.

I never saw the thread(s) in question originally, but since seeing so much discussion on the topic today I've gone and read them. And SurferJoe's post that was in question was, specifically, about a group of about 30 individuals, and the context of the post directs all the negativity and stereotyping onto this group, NOT the wider racial group that they belong to.

However, it seems that certain parts of the post (on, indeed, thread) were taken as standalone statements, wherein they COULD be interpreted as wider racial slurs - despite it being obvious that there was no intent for this - and thus your response.

Now, where I see the real problem has arisen, is that someone has taken said comments out of context, radically reinterpreted their intent.

I'm going to go ahead and use the same approach, albeit more intentionally targetted, with your post. Please note, the following example is for illustrative purposes only and is certainly not how I've interpreted your post.




any minority group are unwelcome here

*gasp* minority groups are not welcome on the PressF1 forums?! That's a petty approach, I don't agree with that idea.


You see, I've taken a small part of your overall post, which certainly when in full content of the post it is part of had no unwarranted negative impact, and suddenly it stands alone on it's own as a massive attack on minority groups' participation on this forum.

This, in my view, is exactly what was done to SurferJoe's post, albeit as mentioned in an unintentional manner and to a lesser extent than my rather extreme example.

Much of what was said in later posts in the thread that could be construed as negative stereotyping is, indeed, fact of the situation and, as such, cannot really be targetted as racial slurs.

Personally I can't believe such a minor thing has blown so far out of proportion, but that's what happens when things snowball.

Really it all seems to be to be a minor misunderstanding that has been made into a full-blown argument by continuing misinterpretations by both sides.

Now, everyone kiss and make up and we can get back to being a nice little community forum about helping each other, no?
inphinity (7274)
1221930 2011-08-09 04:09:00 That's because I'm not apologising for telling you you were close to the line .



Please provide evidence that I ever called you a racist, or retract immediately .



Are you serious? I give you a mild "hey, just be careful there" and I'm a culpable scoundrel . Hyperbole much?


Hey folks,

If we could keep the race-based generalisations to a minimum, that'd be neat, thanks .

That looks to me like you are inferring the remarks are racist, which you assigned from everyone including SJ
SolMiester (139)
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