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Thread ID: 149767 2021-04-26 02:58:00 Husband piroska (17583) PC World Chat
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1476787 2021-04-26 22:15:00 oh wow :( Condolences to you and the family.

From What you mentioned over the various posts he sounds like he could be a bit of a "character" at times, with a good zest for life and told things like they are.
wainuitech (129)
1476788 2021-04-26 23:41:00 Very sorry to hear of your loss and my sympathy goes out to you and your family. Pato (2463)
1476789 2021-04-27 02:52:00 Drat . . . .

Sorry to hear that news .
R2x1 (4628)
1476790 2021-04-27 06:07:00 My sincere condolences and thoughts. notechyet (4479)
1476791 2021-04-27 08:41:00 Well, he'd be horrified .
The utter hassle .
I went through a tank of gas . . . you go there, then the next place, who give you several more forms and you take them to place number 3 . Then later back and 2 more forms, and then oh says the one signed form number 4, the hospital filled that out wrong . I'm think, I go back???
No lucky someone did an on system thing too so he passed it . Great .
Although what the point of that guy was I still don't know, but never mind .

So then the actual details, oh you need a X, great, I'll go at which point Ms Helpful says no I'll get it .
Well no, I got called go pick it up, and it turned out to be a gigantic, weighs as much as a small car coffin .
Er no .

We couldn’t move it easily empty .
Abandoned that, rang a place - can I have a not a coffin thing, yes . Great .
Oh and the crematorium, this is a Cemetery mind you, cash or cheque they say . No eftpos? No Visa? No .

never heard such a thing . Oh and exact amount, no change he says .
So go to bank, get exact cash . Really, lucky I could, what about people doing it all on credit?

The bureaucracy is amazing really .

Oh and one more thing when I hear back from DIA . . . I have to register the death . Not a death cert, a before that thing .
No idea of fee yet, no online, have to apply then they'll tell me sometime I guess how and where .

Of course .

Then I'm going away for a few days . Alone . In peace .
piroska (17583)
1476792 2021-04-27 19:21:00 Your fortitude is amazing. Make the most of your break and come back comforted. Bryan (147)
1476793 2021-04-28 04:23:00 Well, he'd be horrified.

Oh and one more thing when I hear back from DIA...I have to register the death. Not a death cert, a before that thing.
No idea of fee yet, no online, have to apply then they'll tell me sometime I guess how and where.


I think I've got a digital copy of what you need here. I emailed DIA in prep for my mums passing, and they have a digital form, but they don't make it available online for some @#$% knows why reason.
I'll try to attach it. This version is 12 months old, so small chance of being out of date/modified since.

And my condolences as well. Small mercy that he didn't linger in that state for months.

Seems I can't attach the pdf (BDM28 Notification of Death for Registration).
I'll see if I can dig your email out of the old PMs on here.

(Edit - Done, sent)
Paul.Cov (425)
1476794 2021-04-28 05:01:00 I think I've got a digital copy of what you need here.
Small mercy that he didn't linger in that state for months.



Thanks.
No he refused to let them make him linger..........no ICU.

Damn form, had to ask one of his sisters full names of his many ex wives....why they need to know that!!!!1087910880

Stupid pic, it's right way round, just not when I upload.
piroska (17583)
1476795 2021-04-29 06:50:00 Really sorry to hear about your loss piroska. I hope you have your family around you and the support you need in what must be an incredibly difficult time.

Hugs :(
baabits (15242)
1476796 2021-04-29 21:28:00 I hope you have your family around you and the support you need in what must be an incredibly difficult time .

Hugs :(

Not really . His family live all over . . . miles away, son in Akld .
Sorting finances the next step .

Well **** happens .
Think the cat is next, she 19 and not well now, not going to watch her die slowly . Vet visit I think .
piroska (17583)
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